There are two extremes positions on "safer sex
I'm more for a moderate and, in my view realistic, approach to this issue. I think it should always be discussed. A character in a book/story I've been reading online puts it quite blunt and correctly. 'If you can't talk about it, you shouldn't be doing it.' And I'm not referring to crass talk about what you intend to do to each other, but about likes, dislikes, sexual mores and history. We have to realize that anytime we have as much as a French kiss with someone, we're exposing ourself to everybody else this person has ever been with.
When designing awareness
My theory is that people are paying lip service to the notion that you're only ever allowed to have safer sex, but when push comes to shove (often literally), they forget all about it. I'm aware that experience by one individual are not considered scientifically sound, but I'm not writing a scientific brief. If I analyse the last 10 men I've been with: with 6, condoms weren't even mentioned. 3 mentioned it and it wasn't used even though it lay within reach. And ONE guy, left the bed to go FIND a condom. And all these guys professed to have safer sex only on their profiles.
I've been thinking about this blog for a while now, but haven't come around to writing it. I know that a lot of people will condemn me for what I've written. But in stead of ranting, just THINK and analyse your own sexual mores and of the society at large. I don't advocate bareback sex
I hope the latter.
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